Ram Hearted Flame Love Decoded: I reflect on this Aries piece that is close to my heart. The fire of the Aries has come up a lot in my life but she always brings a warmth that is both peaceful and combative. Fighting can be good if it’s used for training and growth. Fire and earth need each other for a number of reasons: to burn off what is dead in the earth while lighting the way and to give the fire something to feed off and hold onto. Love hurts but it’s worth it.